How to use 〜お〜願う (o~negau): A Streetwise JLPT N2 Grammar Guide

spare my life

どうかいのちだけはおたすねがいます
Please, I’m begging you, just spare my life.

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Read the explanation below to understand the nuance of how this grammar structure is used.

This ain’t your regular “please.” This is that humble-ass, “I’m on my knees” request. This is deep kenjougo (humble language). You use this when you’re talking to the real boss—the don, the oyabun, the man who can end you with a single phone call.

Metaphor: Using 〜お〜願う is “bending the knee.” You’re showing you know your place. You’re not an equal. You’re a soldier asking the general for a favor, so you show that respect.


Grammar Conjugation Guide.

Read the table below then use it to conjugate some words you know.

Here’s the blueprint for how you beg.

FormulaExampleTranslation
+ V (ます-stem) + 願う (negau)ゆるねがいますI humbly ask for forgiveness.
+ V (ます-stem) + 願えませんか (negaemasen ka)ねがえませんかCould I humbly ask you to wait?

For this, you take your verb, drop the masu, and sandwich that stem between and ねが You usually end it with negaimasu (present) or negaemasen ka (asking a question) to be extra polite. This is high-level respect.


Example sentences

Read the examples to figure out how the grammar works.

This is how you talk when you’re in the hot seat.

  1. 組長くみちょう、どうかわたしぶんをおねがいます。
    Boss, please, I beg you to hear my side of the story.
  2. アニキ、このシマだけはわたしにおまかねがえませんか?
    Big bro, could I humbly ask you to entrust this turf to me?
  3. 会長かいちょうやつ始末しまつは、このわたしにおもうねがいます。
    Chairman, please command me to be the one to… dispose of him.
  4. このたび無礼ぶれい何卒なにとぞゆるねがいます。
    I humbly beg your forgiveness for my disrespect this time.
  5. わかがしら、もういちにちだけ猶予ゆうよをおあたねがいます。
    Lieutenant, please grant me just one more day’s grace.
  6. 人質ひとじち解放かいほうしてほしくば、この要求ようきゅうをおねがおうか。
    If you want the hostage released, I’m gonna (humbly) ask you to accept these demands.
  7. この証拠しょうこをおあらたねがいます。
    Please examine this evidence.
  8. あそこの金庫きんこ、どうかわたしにおねがえませんか。
    That safe over there… could I please ask you to open it for me?
  9. このちかいをおねがいます。
    Please accept this blood oath.
  10. てきのアジトへの潜入せんにゅうは、わたしにおまかねがいます。
    Please, I ask that you entrust the infiltration of the enemy hideout to me.

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